心向快乐第一季

First of all, it brings some feelings back to me when I am feeling nothing. I appreciate that. Always think a relationship is like “I got issues and you got’em too.” And we live with them together as a partners. Mae and George have their issues. They tried to cover or deal with them in the series. Maybe there’ll be no ultimate solution. It’s just a process in daily life.

As for Mae, who is always go with the feelings and chase the feelings, which is to find the approach to FEEL GOOD. George is more tend to be traditional and hard to open up utterly. They are vivid characters and I can relate from some plots.

It’s a huge world. There are various people and perspectives. Sometimes I just watch it and think: it’s ok to say that??? Just embrace the diversity and try to be more open minded.

Talk to people who care about you or just try to be these people.

It’s ok to be passionate or just want to save everything for oneself. Accept everyone’s tendency.

George said: “I just can be an island. That’s how I operate.” 🖐🏾 It could happen. I’m more relaxed now. Thank you guys:)

这个剧后劲太大了，虽然每集只有短小精悍的25分钟，整季只有6集，但在这样的限制下也难以掩饰mae martin的过人才华。整体节奏过快，还没等观众进入情绪就已经切入到下一个情景也许是一大短板，但同样，全剧没有一句台词是废话，快节奏也带来了强大的情绪冲击力。

ep4开头，George和mae说自己曾非常迷恋Arnie Rivers，觉得他很帅很高，mae黯然神伤。但当mae在酒吧和Arnie见面并见识到他的“男性魅力”之后也“化身迷妹”，开始模仿Arnie的一系列举动。比如，不知从哪里突然手中闪现信用卡，并帅气地主动要求替餐厅偶遇的一家人买单。（但信用卡被拒，最后还是George买了单，装b失败）

之后M问G，如果两人将来分手，以后的约会对象会选择男还是女。G回答大概是男人吧。M没说什么，但她纠结下服用了在医院偷拿的镇定剂，以及这之后的镜头中表达出的M始终无法接受自己的身体，无论是乳房还是女性曲线，她试着穿女士吊带裙并端详镜中的自己，但在G回家时却立刻关上房门并换上了难以分辨体型的T恤，这些种种都表明了M对于自身性别认知的纠结。因为G在遇见M以前的约会对象都是男性，并且一直以来都是“直的”欣赏带有浓烈男性特征的人，这就让M更加焦虑，一方面她想成为G心中完美情人的样子(high school boyfriend, simple, kind, full of sperm)，而另一方面M的女性身体结构限制了这种努力。

在后来的剧情中M带上dildo和G做爱，G无意识的说了一句“i want you to cum inside me”，这句话也许就成了两人后来breakup的导火索。在一直是异性恋的意识形态的G眼中，这只是一句ml时增强气氛的调情。可M却不这么想，因为她无法做到射精这一行为，而正因如此仿佛之前所做的一些努力都白费了一样，她努力使自己更像男人，变成G偏爱的样子（culturally straight），但其实内心深处她并不认可这些masculine做派（参照ep6中M对于Kevin的态度）。就像她对自身的评价那样“i think i'm a transgender, or non-binary... ”即她既不是一个“合格的”女孩，也永远无法成为一个男孩，是夹在中间的，带有尴尬色彩的，模糊的性别。

“i want you to cum inside me”这句话是否带有性挑逗意味是很值得思考的。异性间带有繁殖目的的性交行为除外，都是单纯的享受性交的快感从而增进感情。既然如此，只要达到性高潮就好，射精与否其实并不重要。尤其是对于女性来说，非性器官之间的刺激和挑逗也能够达到这一目的，并且体内射精还面临着意外怀孕的风险，所以对于女性来说应该是值得担心的事情为什么会变得sexy呢？因为这是原始的，自然的？但其实在很多文化中，以生育为目的的性交是文明的，纯洁的，不带有“肮脏的性欲”的象征，例如在江户时期的日本，男人若想寻求浪漫爱情就会去吉原找游女，而家里妻子是只可远观而不可亵玩的，和母亲是同样存在的“圣女”。射精这一行为对于男性来说一直有种莫名的成就感和自豪感，每次射精都好像成功攀登珠穆朗玛峰，而男人最恐惧的事情之一也必然有阳痿早泄等性功能障碍。还有G的朋友们在谈话中永远无法离开有关男性生殖器和射精的玩笑，从这里也不难看出G一直以来受到的以男性话语权主导的社会和文化思想的影响，这种影响也就导致了她会不自觉地说出这样的话并以为很性感。

跑题了，说一下T这个群体。也许是因为性别认知障碍，也许是因为喜欢的对象恰好是直女，总之她们是一群从不停止抹去自身女性特质的努力的女人。即便像M那样拥有美丽的身体曲线和坚挺好看的乳房，她们总是羞于展现。其实男性特质也没什么，但在现在的父权制资本主义的社会背景下，T时常成为被嫌弃的对象——特别是les这个群体当中，也就能够理解了。打个比方，就好像19世纪的一个工人经常打扮成资本家的样子去工厂里，那么这个人大概率是要被说“背叛了无产阶级”。简单讲就是，男性化是OK的，但要取其精华弃其糟粕。

“我喜欢你，喜欢你的声音，喜欢你的身体，喜欢你的气味，喜欢你的疯狂又有趣的小脑瓜，不是因为性别年龄人种地位那些社会强加给每个人的抽象概念标签，仅仅因为你是你。”

深夜刷完了6集，希望有第二季，分别表达一下我对两个主角的看法（如标题）

George

George的主要性格特点是不轻易表露自己的心迹，比较内向的一个人。这一点也导致她在身份认同上不是那么快。这个女主的直女变弯心路历程很真实，她因为爱而成长，主要有两个转折点，第一个是摔伤后让朋友call corn（也是全剧最甜的点哈哈）然后在医院里表露心迹，其实前面也有伏笔就是她参加完婚礼回家想象着对mae说 love you，marry with her。而在喝多受伤进医院打了吗啡之后，则第一次表达出了自己的想法，对于一个直女了那么多年的人来说真的很不容易。第二个转折点我认为是在教室对着喊别人基佬的女生大声呵斥并冲到校长办公室说应该教学生lgbt相关知识，此时她已经逐步认同自己喜欢女生所以才会注意到基佬这个词对gay来说有多么冒犯（这在以前在她潜意识里大约是不会引起强烈反感的现象），她在学着认同自己也在找寻什么是真正的朋友，开始学着表达走出自己的舒适区，六集下来George有很大的成长，她试着去体贴mae，甚至最后坦诚说要一起承担包袱（当然开始出现单方面的包容，这会让对方愈发觉得自己是一个victim，这是一个隐患，如果有第二季这样的心态会出问题）

Mae

有两条线，一条和父母的，一条和女友。两条线都体现了mae是一个内心脆弱敏感不肯承担责任且总是以受害者自居的人。

首先是父母线，中间有一段是父亲对mae说在把mae赶出家门后，母亲天天跟着看mae，我看到这个觉得可能是一个母女缓和的关键点，但似乎mae一直一直介意自己被抛弃，依旧没有安全感，道歉也只是为了获得对方的关注与爱，并不是发自内心的真诚，正如她开头说：这是第十二条中的第九步。偏偏母亲是个倔强的人，对方越是强调自己的受害者身份，mae妈越是倔，于是在父母线上的和解尝试是非常失败的。不过最后一集mae哭着说想回家时，母亲还是心软了，毕竟是亲妈，但这其实不是真正意义上的和解。但不可否认的是，没有人是天生的瘾君子，小时候到底发生了什么导致mae会这样未可知。但25岁的成年人真的不要一直强调说对方的抛弃，如果真的不要了怎么可能随时同意和你打视频电话（狗头）。

女友线，看了有点生气，在一起这段感情中很明显George其实有更多的付出，mae一直都没想过要改变自己重塑自己，让自己忙起来独立起来，一开始的粘人和急着寻求对方在朋友面前介绍自己以获得安全感并一次次以爱之名半胁迫，完全不顾对方也只是一个刚被掰弯自己心理建设都没有做全的自己的爱人，后来身份被承认之后又被迫害妄想症觉得对方理想的是男生并自己逼迫自己往那边靠拢，却始终不敢坦诚地与对方就这一方面进行交流，可能一开始看了会觉得mae很可怜，焦虑得睡不着觉，自卑不自信，但自信是自己给的，交了那么多女朋友首先要对自己有身份认同，我是女生我喜欢女生，对方喜欢我是我这个人不管男女，不是因为男性特质也不是因为女性特质，自己就是自己。然后就去爱对方，如果对方最后真的选择男性了，那就是对方的问题，而我（mae）有真诚地去爱你，展露真实的自我，那你不喜欢我我难过但也没办法，恋爱中忌讳的就是很多过度的焦虑破坏了爱情本身的美好，然后分手后又陷入自卑之中无法自拔。恶性循环。和男性相比之后的自卑其实在很多t的心里都会有，但请相信如果你的爱人是真的爱你，你不要被这个所桎梏，你就是真诚地去照顾对方表达自己的爱，这样才是一个良性循环。而且在剧中很明显的一点是，mae因为自己的自卑其实把对方也带入了消极，正如最后George把这形容为包袱就可以体现。自己的自卑自己无法处理还要对方的包容理解来哄着你，自己被分手消极还和别人make love。真的幼稚！

爱得真诚坦荡，不要伤害自己深爱的人。

Feel Good is a low budget 6-episode TV show which mysteriously skipped my attention when it was first brought up by a friend: probably because it features no big star (Lisa is one, but in a small role), and British TV shows like Fleabag and Killing Eve have raised the bar very high now.

However, one night, I started to watch the first episode and was very impressed. The not so sub plot of addiction is so well-written. I really like it when Mae (its main character shares the same name with the writer and lead actor, which is a bit confusing) expands the definition of ‘addiction’: ‘it’s all the same feelings, craving, and withdrawl, and relief, and obsession. We are just swapping one addiction for another’. By doing that, Mae Martin (I will use the full name when referring to the creator) connects the love story and Mae’s struggle to stay clean together. Mae Martin challenges the audience to view addiction as not only a struggle among a group of people, but something many of us face when being in a toxic relationship with partners, or, say, social media. By then, I am convinced Feel Good is quite good because the creators know ‘nuances’. Its focus on addiction also reminds me of Killing Eve S2, the key word for its 2nd season is ‘obsession’. While both handle compulsive/toxic feelings between people/people and object, Killing Eve’s take on obsession is disappointing, Feel Good, on the other hand, only gets better episode by episode.

Story aside, I am mesmerized by how the show introduces the love story to the audience. It is fast-paced. As Guardian remarks, ‘Feel Good moves so quickly and lightly that it seems impossible it could also be managing to construct characters and burrow into psyches as deeply and empathically as it does.’ You never need to fast-forward; it’s densely-packed but you won’t feel stressful; the plots mingle effortlessly. It takes 30 seconds for Mae and George to fall in love with each other. I love how unconventional and unapologetic it is. I love how an LGBTQIA (bless Joyce) story focus on how the two lovers enjoy their relationship (at least for the most part) without giving too much attention to how they are unsure if the other is into them, or suffering from loneliness because they can’t find a partner. Of course the loneliness issue exists and there is suffering, but there are many representations of those already. Feel Good shows how the relationship can be the start, rather than the ending, of a story.

I also like how the struggles of Mae and George are more about themselves making choices than them being in disagreement with a suffocating society. It is refreshing to see not only Mae’s parents, but George’s mother, support their sexuality. Mae’s gig pals don’t make a fuss about her having a girlfriend. The roommate Phil is an angel. The lead of the support group is a gay man; Lava is loved by her mother regardless of her sexuality. While Binky’s husband and his friends are ‘piece of shit’, I don’t see them as homophobic (I could be wrong though). The show demonstrates that everyone can and should be nice to LGBT+ community. I like how Feel Good doesn’t use societal approval as a trope; instead, it allows us to see Mae and George as individuals who make their own decisions. Yes, sexuality is and will be important in their lives, but they don’t let it to devour them, they can still breathe.

The relationship is beautifully written and wonderfully performed. I mean THE CHEMISTRY!! Yes there is sex. As Mae Martin said, she didn’t want the lesbian sex to be voyeuristic. I congratulate her in doing a fantastic job!! Feel Good has amazing sex scenes: they are romantic, witty, hilarious, and honest. The director and writers make sure the sex scenes are not about sex/lust only, they are also about female pleasure. Mae and George communicate and share their sexual preferences; they don’t force their fetish on the other, instead, they ask politely. The show doesn’t mystify lesbian sex: even lesbians can’t cum and that’s ok! Feel Good has achieved what Sex Education has done: it has educated people (older than high schoolers) how to have sex, and more importantly, how to discern when the relationship is going south.

There are nudity scenes and they are (quite literally) serving the plot: it is when Mae feels most vulnerable physically. The paradox of the physicality and the personality is, however, not restricted to gay people. Mae is struggling because she believes however hard she tries, she can never have George in the long haul because George is ‘culturally straight’. George, however, insists this idea is just in Mae’s head. (Or is it?) It becomes apparent that the couple is not on the same page on many things. Mae is shy but she wants public validation of their relationship: she wants to be blessed by George’s family and friends. George is popular (win the lottery) but she is ultra private when it comes to Mae. She points out her friends just want to crack a joke and emotions (mind, not sexuality), for them, is gross. Eventually, George will have to face her own real emotions. There is a moment where Mae questions why George never like/retweet her social media stuffs. As Fleabag says ‘Hair is everything’, the (non)usage of social media, I argue, is (almost) everything. This again shows the discrepancy between the couple – which, of course, is normal; in every relationship/friendship, such disagreements happen and that’s what makes this show so relatable.

It is interesting to note that the dynamic between the two flows all the time. I find myself on the side of Mae and then I am on George’s side! For example, the first episode shows Mae concealing her addiction history from George, which is a bit dishonest; but George also makes Mae think she’s already mentioned her to her friends while actually she’s dating some Crenshaw dude. I find it especially interesting that while George is portrayed as a cold person (she leaves Mae alone in a party; she’s rather cold towards Phil etc etc), Mae can also be quite aloof – check what she does to Lava. When she says let’s not share this with Maggie, it is as if George were saying let’s not tell my friends now.

Talking about George and her friends, I really like how the show does about their friendship. It shows that those friendships, even though ‘long haul’, are not necessarily genuine. Indeed, things can be tricky, if not scary, when friends finally choose to be honest with each other, right?

Binky’s husband and friends are hilarious characters, but the show makes sure not all the male characters are caricatured. I like Phil a lot; he’s giving me the neighbor who ended up marrying Hannah’s boyfriend’s sister in Girls, especially when he’s mentioning all the baby stuffs. Mae’s dad is a charming character; but I am not sure if he’s a good dad. His ‘Oh I need to check the garden’ is a specimen of dad type, who leaves all the dirty job of communicating with kids to mums. The show also inserts in a MeToo story plot where things turn sour quickly. In all, the portrayals of male characters are multifaceted. Well done.

Last but not the least: small roles. Does the show even have small roles? Because everyone shines. Even the shop assistant of that sex shop: the scene is so funny and captivating. Lisa Kudrow is funny but in a cold way – which is really nice. I am not crazy about her first appearance in the laptop; seeing her appear in Blackpool is a real surprise for me (and Mae). I love the scene in Ghost Train the most. Arguing in a horror house/moving train, with all the noise and terrifying man-makes while discussing ‘real emotions’, which is the most terrifying of all – what a genius idea!! The fact that the show keeps vague about why Mae is cast out of the family is an interesting one; I quite like how her mother points out her privilege and that she has everything she wants when she grows up. Again, the show is looking at the mysterious and intricate human mind that is not so easily explainable. Apart from that, I don’t think there are a lot of TV shows that discuss ‘privilege’. Kudos to the writers for highlighting this aspect.

The photography is really pretty. It, like TEOTFW, has a consistent tone, which is even reflected when Mae and George are in bed. Note the beautiful blue shadow. The music is nice. The costume looks comfy and lovely (never let the costume steal the show– I’m talking to you, Killing Eve). My favorite, as I said earlier is the pace of narration. Mae has run a lot and it is a signature of Feel Good, like Fleabag’s looking at the camera.

Feel Good is about a female stand-up comedian. In the States, there is The Marvelous Mrs Maisel. Both Mae and Midge suffer from a backfire from they using real-life stories with their partner (judging from S1 finale, haven’t watched S2 yet). It is interesting to think how personal the stand-up mateials can be, but having just watched Hannah Gadsby’s Nanette, I am reminding myself that in order to make things funny, the ‘truth’ can be compromised. While Nanette is almost metafictional when Hannah approaches/disconstructs what makes comedy, I don’t think that is the angle Feel Good is heading towards. However, it is still fit to think about the show amongst the powerful works by Mae Martin’s fellow female comedians. The freshness of the show also reminds me of Girls (with its minute depictions of modern female life) and Fleabag (with its candidacy about real emotions). Feel Good deserves more recognition and PLEASE CAN WE HAVE SEASON 2 THANK YOU NETFLIX!!

我是T。我想被女孩推倒。我曾对亲密关系关系成瘾。我沉迷于女孩们的暗面。

注视着Mae Martin的时候，我感到被看见。

我的初恋来自离异家庭。我15岁的crush有抑郁症。我的前任同时有躁郁症和人格分裂症。我从未刻意因一个人的过去而选择她们，但somehow，they turned out that way.也许因为那种人格的张力不必隐藏也会隐约浮现吧。也许是因为我天生喜欢戏剧性，喜欢刺激。

And all didn’t end well.

情绪是会传染的。在高二的时候我曾经那么厌恶自己。一边大哭一边猛抽着雾化咖啡因的时候，在大雨里奔跑的时候，觉得自己空虚，孤独，一无是处。虽然我没有真的产生substance addiction，但那段为了控制睡眠而交替大剂量服用褪黑素和咖啡因的日子，现在想起来还觉得后怕。

...还有对亲密关系的焦虑。只要觉得无聊就会想找对方。只要对方不回就会觉得生命被抽干，觉得自己是一无是处的垃圾。会不安，会百爪挠心。

我在初三毕业的暑假打电话给我的心理老师，告诉她我爱上了一个抑郁症的女孩，我想帮她，我想和她做爱。老师要我保证我们会在“能闻得到阳光的地方”发生关系，然后告诉我，我救不了任何人，我做不了任何人的英雄。

如果受不了，我必须走。我必须先爱自己。

《心向快乐》回应了非常非常多有关LGBT社群生活的亚主题：挣扎的自我认同、痛苦的过去、“出柜”对伴侣关系造成的张力，甚至当George眉飞色舞地描述自己对某位理想型男性的痴迷时，Mae的感受对我来说都熟悉得令人痛苦。

但最关键的是，Mae同时存在于剧内剧外。她同时也是自己的故事有意识的讲述者。她完全接受了自己的过去，并且知道分享它能为他人带来怎样的理解和慰藉。这非常了不起。

我感到被看见，被回应。我感到并不孤独，而这点给了我信心。

所以....谢谢这部剧的存在。谢谢Mae和我们讲述她的故事。

现在时间是2020/6/6 凌晨5:20 时间停留在520上 我写完这句话 它变成了5:21

我不清楚大家身边是否有同性恋的朋友，准确来讲，我不知道怎么称呼他们会显得更尊重一些。对于“同性”，我经历了不解到理解，支持再到感同身受。《断背山》让我理解了这样的感情，而《心向快乐》让我感同身受。同性题材的电影也看了一些，比如《霸王别姬》，却怎么也没有《断背山》和《心向快乐》让我更有感触。

幼年的我，无法想象两个大男人在一起是什么样子的，他们如何做爱？2005年李安导演的《断背山》上映，我是在电脑上下载来看的，只是单纯的因为它的名气。我没想到的是，我会看到哭。

《断背山》中关于形婚背后的女人，孩子，家庭占着很大的比重，这些都是为了体现出当时社会对于“同性恋”的态度。即使，会觉得女人可怜，可是更多程度上会把同情心给男主。他们似乎，也确实更为艰难一些。

电影名称断背山，这是全片的主旨，象征所在。Jack在剧中对Ennis说道：我们本可以相伴度过美好的一生，真正的美好人生，有个属于我们自己的家园，但你却不想要，恩尼斯，所以我们只剩下断背山！一切都缘起于断背山，而那确实我们的一切，仅有的一切。

断背山似乎就是他们心中的圣地，在世界上唯一能够做自己，正视自己情感的地方。他们每次的相聚都需要去断背山，而我希望那里都是断背山。任何地方都可以让人们做自己。

在他们最后一次的相聚中，jack说：我们认识将近20年，你拴的我好辛苦...... 当我时隔15年再看它的时候，我才发现真的会发生这样的情况。我们都无法正视自己的情感，在悠悠岁月中，在彼此的生活中进进出出，这样会让脆弱的那一方多么痛苦。最终如同剧中的人物一样，“打架”，“争吵”，“纠缠”再拥抱着痛哭。

电影的最后一刻，出现了jakc的衣服和断背山的照片，随着Ennis悲伤的眼神，好像那一刻就被融化掉了。真正的理解他们，真的替他们感到难过，如果你也掉下了眼泪，说明你真的理解了。

很长一段时间我都喜欢听其中的插曲《IDon'tWantToSayGoodbye》，当真的去了解一件事物的时候，真的就会自然而然的去理解这样的情感。有一位“同志”曾经多次找我聊天，他表明身份的时候，我得去向他解释我是直男。他有一个微信群，我在其中。我真的有“接触”这群人，一起玩王者荣耀，喜欢玩蔡文姬的小受受，挺可爱的。

这些年间，国外彩虹活动，同性立法等等新闻很多。我从开始的理解转变为支持。我和人讨论过关于“同性”的话题，大多人避而不谈或是充满偏见。我表示出，我很支持的时候，他们问我，你儿子如果是同性恋怎么办？我当时犹豫了。原来我的理解，支持，从来没有放在自己身上。我思考了3分钟，告诉他们，如果他是的，我也会支持。我会支持他过自己想要的人生。以上，是我对于“同性”的一段心路历程。而《心向快乐》，让它变成了我的感同身受。

原来爱情，无关性别。不管你是同性恋，还是异性恋，那情感是一样的。

梅·马丁是一个有着吸毒史的脱口秀演员，她有着糟糕的过去，包括现在。乔吉则是一个异性恋。

梅是一个有上瘾型人格的人，精神脆弱，缺乏安全感，任何时候都可能会崩溃。像是待在暗黑的地牢之中，期待着会照进来一道光。而乔吉就是她的这一道光。

在乔吉朋友的生日上，乔吉还是称梅为朋友，这不是第一次隐瞒梅的存在了。之前在一次婚礼上也是。这对于缺乏安全感的梅来说，对于缺乏安全感的我来说，真正的感同身受。你是否爱上一个人，你们在一起，你却从不认识她/他的家人，甚至是朋友？我不如梅，我没有她的自信，我没有勇气面对对方的家人，朋友。如果连我的存在，都不知道，我真的会不知所措。

在生日过后，一次意外，由于吗啡的作用，乔吉出柜了。一个人进入了一个新的领域，乔吉自然也会有着迷茫。两个人因为取向，性别的原因，分手了。

两个人分开之后，乔吉开始明白一些事情。她问自己的那些朋友：我们多久没有谈过正经的话题了？最后说出：“你们算什么朋友？” 然后清楚自己真正的朋友是谁。

而梅则在互助会，拿着1day的牌子，这意味着她又复吸了。彼此不喜欢的两个互助会成员开始了“互助”谈话。

像大多数可以让人暂时麻木自己的东西一样，我们似乎永远停不下来。我们从未想过，我们真正“吸毒”的原因，如果因为某一件事，我们尝试把它做好不就行了。而不是什么都不做，等它变坏，然后再解除“痛苦”。

梅在经历了一切之后，她对着手机那头的母亲说，我想回家。原本有些“生分”，赶她离家的母亲说，现在就给她订票，询问她有去机场的钱吗,给她打钱，现在就让梅的父亲给梅煮汤......

梅问道：你还生不生我气？母亲说，我从未生过你的气。这句话，好熟悉。我母亲好像就曾这样对我说过，你是我孩子，我怎么会生你的气。

结尾的时候，乔吉对梅说，我不知道没了你 我该怎么办。结局是两个人相拥，亲吻，是美好的。我们大多数人在恋爱的时候，都会觉得没了对方，我怎么办？我怎么活？生活毕竟是生活，我们把一切交给时间，而时间确实也做到了，我们也放下了。

《心向快乐》是一部女同题材的英剧，可以让你一口气看完，我 也推荐你利用一个周末，午后，一气呵成。《心向快乐》它关于“瘾”，关于“朋友”，关于“亲人”，关于“爱情”。

我们每个人似乎都或多或少的有瘾。吸烟？看剧？对某一个人的依赖？心理学说，成瘾性人格都存在一定的缺陷。当然，我们都有缺陷。对某个事物越是在乎，就越缺少它。

关于朋友，人总会遇到好多好多的朋友。区分起来可能会简单，谁是能和你讨论正经话题的人。或者一直在你身边，你都未曾发现。

关于亲人，主要就是父母。我想着没什么好谈的，因为做子女的，永远不会知道父母对他的爱到底有多么重。我们可以满不在乎，但是当这个世界开始崩坍瓦解的时候，那个家却永远为你遮风挡雨。

至于爱情，我们分手的原因，我们选择了理性，选择对彼此都好的决定。明明很在乎，却要不断安慰自己。实际上我们只是做了“容易”的选择罢了。

想象一下，对方在深渊里，你是否真的愿意做他/她的一道光。

从《断背山》到《心向快乐》，当有天，它们的标签不再是“同性”，而是“爱情”的时候。人们或许才真正的接受了。此刻，它们是因为爱情，让我感同身受的。谢谢！🥰

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